Thursday, December 31, 2015

2016 has kick started off now! Plans? 365 days?


An eventful year with so many events that I could hardly keep count of them.
What happened? Well, I found some new interesting people, who were from my same field of writing and hoping I would create a group for writers.
And, hoping to read all of their blogs one by one taking time and answering to all questions and asking some important questions too.
How was your year?
  • Did you cry anytime?
  • Did you laugh many times?
  • Did you read some life changing quotes or books?
  • Did you watch interesting movies on youtube.
Well, the answer to all the above must be a resounding yes.

2015 was a year that went too fast If I may recall. Ooops!

Therefore lets try some new year resolutions this year for a change.
  • Lets see if some ritual goodness can bring in some happiness to many peoples lives.
  • Let us just try to experiment with life a little bit more!
I saw a movie called 'Jo and the boy' a Malayalam movie yesterday to refresh my mind from thoughts that were clotting my view.
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I learnt some important lessons.
  • Try to write everyday.
  • Try to evoke the child inside you every day atleast when you are all alone to complete those unfinished dreams that you have.
  • Try to work on a project for a year and complete it for your own sake.
  • Try to maintain the 'good spirits' every day.
Those were some lessons that were glaring in front of my eyes when I started to watch it!
Let us see how we can work on maintaining that good spirit everyday.
First off, we need a project, yes a crucial project that we religiously attend to no matter what.
Maintain the 'life' of the project throughout 365 days starting from today.
365 days is a lot and you can even build a dream and make it happen.
Say you want to write a book or write everyday or paint some pictures everyday.
You have to find that two hours, where you spend valuable time on your project everyday.
That's the start, from there you string one bead daily to create a chain of work from 365 days.
Wow! it sounds like a movie but you could do it for 2016 and for your own sake.
A resolute action to complete one beautiful year.
                           2016
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''Writing is actually a 'catastrophic ritual' an undying 'angel' seem to nudge all of us to write a little more!''

Wednesday, October 7, 2015

Why can't we accept each human as an exclusive 'original'?




The issue of differences, race and species attacks us when we accept each human only as a part of a group.

This is very limiting and inaccurate since we have absolutely failed to see the human as an original and not as a copy or a label or member of a group.


Scientific markings are for studies research and not for everyday living.

Most of our problems to adjust with each other starts from these markings signs and labels.


This is a wrong way since even in animal kingdom each being is an original - an exclusive.

It is fresh but might also be a more effective way to establish relationships with this uniqueness rather than the bugging talks and ordinary commonality.

Commonality seems to be hurtful when it comes to
 deciding about a persons character.

Marina Finely on the crucial need to identify each individual as an exclusive character.

Individuality Originality and Exclusivity is the side that need to be welcomed along with the general signs.

We are now a highly developed specie and no longer need to clear the rules under basics, in order to prove our self worth.

Our self worth should also be allowed to be read from our innate different skills, talents, thoughts and also how we react to situations.

This effective way to study a person is enough to understand the persons first value or meaning the first impression.

Since we rely on general proven signs we avoid the exclusive beauty of an individual and mostly hinder it from further development.

The old way breaks the bond from being created even before we actually get to know the person.

Therefore it is highly important to see  each persons originality first!


He explains how group and herd concept soon turns toxic and how you lose your authentic mind and thoughts.


Saturday, July 4, 2015

Why love spreads like wild fire

I have been experiencing love from all directions for the past two weeks. 

Don't know how and why! Why? Why? Why?


Well.

So I thought let it last till it lasts!

The sea of kindness must be there somewhere near the lake of tears




When I get to see someone in trouble maybe I will pass that kindness back and the cycle continues with the other person.

Kindness does not require you to be a saint or a king, all you need is to help someone in trouble.

The cycle of karma is quick, it will give you all that and more kindness, I have seen it occur in my life.


Why not let it in your life?

Even on Indiblogger I managed to make some new friends.

Once you give love to one person that person passes it to another person and it is a chain of love reaction.

Here are some kind quotes I found on the net.

Hope you will like reading them.



The above quote by Buddha tells such a great information. Some have great suffering while others too little yet both deserves kindness, simple to say but needs practice to really be kind.



The above quote by George Sand tells us how to give love and kindness. How correct it is! 

So the rest of quotes are all for or you to read and understand each word and don't forget to listen to the song in the end!






















I have been listening so many songs of late. So I thought i will share this song with you my dearest friends.

Hope you will feel kind today and for all the days coming.






Hope you like this post friends.:)











Thursday, July 2, 2015

The songs and music in my lifes' background score

Wow!

What a nice topic to discuss and a pleasure to listen. A reward for the tired weary ears.

There are songs and music that never leave me ever! Haunting me wherever I go, no matter I even run away from them. So many gems, which one would I mention here?

The music of the world is so immense and inspiring that sometimes every song seems the greatest.

From the tribal beats to the melodies to the rock and pop genre all inspire me and play in my background.

Sometimes I feel god is the DJ playing all these songs in my mind whenever I want to jump and dance.

Or sometimes some songs help us relax and enjoy the sparkling- resplendent- zest and beauty of life.

I have absolutely no words about the following wonders of music from all over the world especially from India.

I have more but there is no place in this post.

Here are some of the best of my background playing songs and music.

English Hits

Ace of Base



Sting



Sting



Malayalam film songs

Vaishaaka Sandhye


Ousappachan Malayalam Hits



Haunting lovable Tamil Film Hits and Music

Illayaraja

Illayaraja Songs and BGMs



Raajavin Paarvai Raaniyin Pakkam

Mundram Pirai BGM



Illayaraja BGM

Illayaraja BGMs





Veti Veru Vaasam

aavaram poove

Saami Kitte

Oh Priya

Thoongataha Vizhigal



Priceless ever haunting Hindi Songs

Rangeela re Old Hindi hit



Sau Baar Janam Lenge Hindi





Duniya Banaane Waale Kyaa Tere Man Meh Samaayee





Sheeshaa Ho Ya Dil ho

Kabhi Kuch Pal Jeevan Meh

Kisi Nazar Ko Tera Intezaar Aaj Bhi heh

Jano Jaanam Jaaneman

Muhabat To Karta heh



Ek Ladiki Bheegi Bhaagi

Mere Saaso Ko

Zindagi Pyaar Ka Geet heh

Teheriye Hosh Meh Aah lu




My favorite Songs of all times




Sunny



Rabindra Sangeet Dibosho Rojoni



Dibosho Rojini

From my brother a great music lover I got many of these collection and especially the one next the most haunting ever

California Dreaming




Yet there are several more lost songs and music to time.

I can only amaze at the variety and infinite power of the human mind and its creative feelings every time I listen to these songs and it's ever enchanting music.

Contigo my friends.




Let your heart beat freely - its FRIDAY again!

Today is Thursday, and now an evening of red sun sets and mind sets.

Today is yet another day when thousands and millions wait impatiently for a Friday.

Another blissful day that life shall gift to us. Another rainy day of July that promises more fertile soils and minds too!

Is it a day to solve old riddles and puzzles?
Not really!


 A fresh mind and mouth to sing a song with not a care in the mind.
A splash of water from the heavens to bless the land of battles and cries.

A day to forget worries for a while.
A day to relax like a plant in a plastic cover and dream about the flowers of its future.

A day to light a lamp of hope.
A lamp that would destroy ignorance and discrimination.



But today is also the day to let your heart skip a beat or two,
to let it beat freely with no fear or confusion.

To roam in the July air and get your clothes soiled after a game of football with the neighbourhood kids

A brand new vibrant day to remember for the rest of the year.
Dhak Dhak Dhak Dil hi to hai, Dhadakne Do!

Wednesday, July 1, 2015

Why learning to maintain a new true friendship is vital to me

I have always failed to maintain good friendships because of difference of opinions, mainly.


The important lesson I learned today is that because your friend has an opposite opinion it doesn't mean you must hate him.


Four steps to take to maintain new friends:
  1. Learn to continue the conversation with our honest opinions
  2. And also respond positively to the good inputs of your friend
  3. Agreeing to certain things
  4. Now we have learnt a new way to speak



In this way we learn the priceless assertive communication.

One moment of impatience can destruct your hard earned friendship of a few years or more. So running away from a friend due to a silly remark or differences is 'absolutely foolish.'


Friendships usually does not live forever, at least in my story.


It is correct in certain situations, because our friends leave us or we lose connection to people when they change.


Therefore, we lose good friends early in life.


However, there comes a time when we get new friends who open new paths and perceptions.



They enrich us with new information about different angles of the same situation.

These new ideas or brain waves might seem terrible or completely irritating but that is what friendship is about, the joy of the knowing different outlooks of people through a relationship.


And since we have the experience of  the older friendships we can use that knowledge to help us maintain the new ones easily.



'Experience can be such a damn good teacher.'

Friends are not pillars but they are a different pair of eyes and a fresh brain that awakens us to new planes that were unknown before.

Good friends seldom come our ways and so to maintain them is that much more crucial.

Maintaining these new friendships are a guarantee to a new direction to life.

Therefore, maintain your new friends and listen to their pains and joys.

Listen, listen because tomorrow when you have a bad day they will listen to you for sure and give you fresh thoughts.